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How To Love Others Gods Way

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.  By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35 (NKJV)

If there is one thing we can all relate to it is to loving ourselves.  Before you scoff, or rebuke me for narcissism, I would encourage you to think about this for a moment.  For example, we make sure that we are fed, bathed, clothed, and we usually have a list of things we want to do, all for the purpose of taking care of ourselves.  We do this because deep down inside, we love ourselves. 

If we didn’t love ourselves then I guess we wouldn’t be so upset when people cut us off while driving our cars, or we would be happy with being fired and so on—but this is not the case.  Even when we claim to hate our lives, we truly love ourselves, because if we didn’t we wouldn’t be depressed or bitter about our circumstances.  The fact we can become depressed tells us we want more for ourselves than what we currently have. God knows this, and to be perfectly clear, loving oneself is not a problem, unless we become self-absorbed, and self-centered as a result of our love for self. 

God truly understands how much we love ourselves and He has given us Scriptures to guide us in loving others with this same type of love.  When asked, “Which is the great commandment in the law?” Jesus responded by saying, “ ‘You shall love the LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.’ This is the first and great commandment.”  He then followed this up by giving the 2nd greatest commandment, by saying, “And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:36-39).

As husbands we have been given this same type of commandment with respect to how we are to love our wives.  Ephesians 5:28 tells us, So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.”

Loving oneself isn’t the issue, but loving others as we love ourselves can be an ongoing challenge.  To forgive those who have offended us, just as God has forgiven us, is a genuine act of love.  To take our valuable time and resources and invest it into others when we have our own plans for those things is another example.  Regardless of how our love is manifested, it should always be a spirit-led willingness to do what is best for others, regardless of the costs involved. 

Q:         How can we consistently have this type of love to give to others?

Here’s the thing—our love for others will always be a byproduct of our genuine love for our Lord.  As we love Him, we will usually find we have a greater love for others.  God demonstrated His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Rom. 5:8).  Christ laid down His own life for others—this is how we are to love others as well.  When we have this love, we will walk in faith—doing what we know to be righteous.  As we do, God empowers us, and provides what is needed.

I want to encourage you to meditate upon these truths.

STUDY QUESTION: According to John 13:34-35, how did Jesus say we will know if we are His true disciples?

PERSONAL INVENTORY: Do you have a genuine love for others?

APPLICATION: Let’s continue to read our Bibles daily so we can understand the nature of God, and see the many examples of His love for us.  As we do, we will find our love for Him is growing, and our love for others is as well.

LET’S PRAY: Father, thank You for Your amazing love for us.  Thank You for giving us Your word to show us how much You love us, and what this love looks like in action.  Help us to love others in this same way.  In Jesus’ precious name, amen…

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott

Copyright ©2017 by Pastor Scott Wright.
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