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Focusing On The Things We Can Control

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:21 (NKJV)

If there is one thing we can be sure of, it is the promises contained in God’s Word.  This is a huge point, and unfortunately, it is one we can become jaded to hearing.  Let’s face it; life is full of uncertainty, challenges, and blessings, all sort of mixed together.  Each day brings a host of new opportunities.  All too often we can perceive the challenges we face to be a negative, when in fact, they can very well be a blessing. 

It seems to be our nature to focus most of our attention upon the things concerning us the most, and this usually means on those things we cannot control.  When I think about this I am quickly reminded of the popular serenity prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr, “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

There is great wisdom contained within this prayer.  First of all we do need a peaceful tranquility when we are faced with things we cannot change or control.  We can achieve this only by trusting God and His sovereignty (cf. Isa. 26:3).   Next, we must seek God for the courage to change the things we can.  For me, this simply means I need to focus on the things I can control, which are my actions, and reactions to what I am facing.  I need to seek the Lord for His will and then plot a course to begin doing my part.  God has a specific plan for each of us, no matter what we may be facing.  And regardless of what someone else may be doing, we are responsible to do our part, and to do it with a proper attitude and heart, as if we are doing it for our Lord (1 Cor. 10:31; cf. 2 Cor. 9:7).

So let’s bring some application to these biblical principles.  Let’s say we are experiencing a problem in a relationship with a spouse or friend.  Instead of finding blame with the other person, and trying to change them, let’s make it our goal and our heart's desire to focus on what we can control, and change.   Taking responsibility for anything we may have done to cause a strain in the relationship is a way we can do our part in the healing process.  Choosing to forgive the other person and looking for ways to improve the relationship is another way we can focus on what we can control.  When we are committed to utilizing this godly principle we will soon find many applications for the challenges we will face.

Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin. James 4:17 (NKJV)

I want to encourage you to meditate upon these things today. 

STUDY QUESTION: According to the Scriptures contained within this devotional, what can we learn about how we should overcome evil?

PERSONAL INVENTORY: Are you willing to focus only upon the things you can control?  Are you willing to do your part, and allow God to take care of the rest?

APPLICATION: Let’s continue to be steadfast in seeking God in prayer to give us the wisdom to understand when we are attempting to change another person, rather than focusing on our part.

LET’S PRAY: Father, thank you for Your amazing wisdom.  Father, grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference.  In Jesus’ precious name, amen…

Be Blessed, Pastor Scott






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